Respect is an important component of every healthy relationship, yet it’s absolutely critical for the long-term success of a romantic relationship.
Disrespect can take many forms, but it typically has the same outcome. Studies have shown that a lack of respect is one of the main predictors of a breakup.
If you spot any of these signs below, it's a sign your partner doesn’t respect you and that means the relationship needs work.
1- Your Partner Ignores Your Boundaries
Healthy relationships are all about establishing and respecting one another’s boundaries.
2- They Keep Lying To You
There's a reason why lying is a leading cause of break ups. Dishonesty is one of the most disrespectful and destructive behaviors in any relationship. It shows your partner doesn't care about the impact their actions have on your life, and that they're only thinking about themselves.
3-They Use Your Insecurities Against You
In a relationship, you want to feel safe enough to open up, share deep thoughts, and lean on your partner for comfort and support. So if your partner takes the things you share and throws them back in your face — whether it's to hurt you, win an argument, etc. — consider it a major red flag.
When a partner speaks down about you or uses your insecurities and limitations to their advantage, these all are indications that your partner does not have enough respect for you.
4-Your Partner Calls You Names
Speaking of arguments, take note of how your partner acts during them. From screaming, name-calling, and
threats, verbal abuse is a significant sign of disrespect. It might also show up in the form of "light-hearted" jokes that actually feel mean.
5-They Always Interrupt When You're Talking
Does your partner consistently talk over you, interrupt your stories, speak for you, or finish your sentences? "When we cut off a person midstream, we are sending a message that says, 'What I have to say is more important than your thoughts.
6-Your Partner Doesn’t Value Your Time
If you're always the one stopping what your doing to accommodate your partner or if your plans are constantly put on hold in favor of theirs.
7-Your Partner Doesn’t Allow You Privacy Or Independence
A partner can demonstrate disrespect if they do not allow you to have time to yourself and require you to explain any activities done without them.
8- They Make Big Decisions Without You
Being in a relationship means being part of a team. If your partner makes big decisions without consulting you first, they might not respect you enough.
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