We live in a competitive world, where people value achievement and accomplishment and strive for perfection.
Whether we are talking business, sports, science, or academic achievement, we admire successful people and are understandably impressed by a presentation of polished perfection.
But interpersonally, are those the people we like the most? Are we drawn to people who seem to be competent and confident in every area, or are we more likely to want to socialize with people who display some measure of vulnerability?
Everyone has been there, feeling embarrassed over something we said, did, or accidentally displayed. From words to wardrobe malfunctions, everyone makes mistakes and feels ashamed.
But according to research, unintentionally revealing your humanity may make you relatable, endearing, and appealing.
As much as we strive for achievement and even perfection, blunders and bloopers remind us not to take ourselves too seriously. We also empathize with others who make mistakes. Maybe because it is endearing and encouraging to be reminded that we are not alone in our imperfections.
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