🃏Signs You’re An Option Not A Priority🃏

1. All Plans Are On Their Terms

Do they make plans with you or show up last minute? Are you expected to drop everything you were doing to spend time with them?

2. You Feel Like You Are Not As Important To Them

Are you included? Do they include you in the important things in their life? Do you later on find out things they “forgot” or “thought” they told you? Is it like they live a different life you know little about?

3-Little regard for your feelings

They accuse you of being crazy whenever you stand up for yourself and speak about issues that bother you. This kind of emotional manipulation is a clear indication that your partner has no regard or respect for your feelings.

4- No trust

Relationships should be founded on honesty and trust, and the minute you can’t trust your partner, you have to question whether your relationship is heading anywhere.

5- They’re Most Interested In The Physical Side

Sex in a relationship is healthy, but if this is all that’s keeping them around then that’s not healthy. Do you have to weigh a certain amount or dress a certain way for them to find you attractive?

Some people will not change their behavior unless they feel the need to do so. If you are allowing your partner to get away with all these things unchallenged, they will continue acting that way.

Decide what is important to you and set some clear boundaries. If they keep disrespecting your boundaries its probably time to end the relationship.

At some point in time, after trying your hardest to address the problems in your relationship, you will have to decide whether you are prepared to continue being an option in their life.