Let’s be honest about this. Becoming "the other woman" to a married man is not the ambition of any sane woman. A young girl playing dress up probably never imagines being a mistress. She wants to be a beautiful bride, wear pretend wedding dresses, get married to the boy of her dreams, and live happily ever after.
Naturally, there will always be exceptions to the rule. Some other women claim to believe that they are happy with the arrangement. Even so, these women are in the minority.
The vast majority of ladies who have affairs with married men usually stumble in with their eyes and ears firmly shut. Their deluded hearts are full of false hopes and broken promises, and they are madly in love with their Mr. Unavailable.
Most extramarital affairs are doomed to failure. Be prepared for heartache, disappointment, guilt, and lies. Yes, lies. If a married man can lie to his wife, he can also lie to his mistress. Your first mistake will be thinking that you are somehow different.
Truths About Being a Mistress-
Cheating men rarely leave their wives.
You will never be his first priority.
You will attend special occasions and spend holidays alone.
Your friends and family will think you're single, and you will have to lie.
You will think about him more than he thinks about you.
The sex does not mean he loves you.
He is sleeping with his wife.
You will always be his dirty little secret.
You may have the privilege of being his "friend" on social media such as Facebook, but he will never acknowledge you as being anything more than that.
You can never tell the truth or expose the affair.
The truth always comes out in the end.
You will always be the biggest loser.
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