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Shame lies at the heart of many of the issues that bring people to counseling. The dictionary definition of shame is âa painful feeling...
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BoundarySolutions
May 21, 20222 min read
đCan You Forgive & Forgetđ
Forgive and forget is advice that has been passed down through generations. But is it as easy as it sounds? Forgive? Maybe. Forget?...
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BoundarySolutions
May 20, 20222 min read
đKeep The Parting Shots to Yourself When You Break Upđ
âParting shotsâ are insults hurled at the end of a relationship, for example, âI never loved you,â âYouâre a narcissist,â or âI wish I...
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BoundarySolutions
May 19, 20221 min read
đ˝You Have To Have Date Nights. Period!đ˝
First of all, date nights donât have to be at night. You can do them any day at any time. The Gottman Instituteâs research shows that 2...
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BoundarySolutions
May 19, 20222 min read
đ Going Through Divorce And Living Together, Itâs Possibleđ
Can divorced couples live together? Living together during the proceedings often becomes quite challenging, especially when separation is...
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BoundarySolutions
May 18, 20223 min read
đąHow Much is Too Much in A Relationshipđą
How do I know if the work our relationship needs is too much work? I believe that every committed relationship deserves your best shot...
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BoundarySolutions
May 17, 20221 min read
đąAre You A Phub?đą
Phub (short for "phone snub") When youâre ignoring someone in favor of your phone. Frequently being phubbed by a romantic partner creates...
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BoundarySolutions
May 17, 20222 min read
đ Don't Let Anger Become AngryđĄ
You may be on the same page with your partner for most things, but there will come a time when you donât see eye to eye. You have some...
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BoundarySolutions
May 16, 20222 min read
đBe A Blessing Todayđ
I sat and listened to a man today. He was upset and getting impatient. He enjoyed talking about his job, so I asked him questions about...
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BoundarySolutions
May 16, 20222 min read
â¤ď¸âđŠšYour Dating Style Comes From Your Childhood â¤ď¸âđŠš
Some children are literally raised to hide their emotional needs. Many parents who raise their children this way are otherwise fine...
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BoundarySolutions
May 15, 20222 min read
âBeing Asked To Change Isnât Always A Negative Thingâ
Being asked to change can evoke some intense emotions, and so looking at ways people being asked to change could manage these emotions,...
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BoundarySolutions
May 15, 20222 min read
đŹIs Your âWeirdâ Behavior Just Who You Are or Is It A Trauma ResponseđŹ
All people have odd behaviors. Sometimes they are not weird at all to us but may appear odd to an outside observer. While many behaviors...
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BoundarySolutions
May 14, 20222 min read
đđąDating With Aligorithomsđąđ
On a quest for love. Dating apps are pocket sized slot machines. Swiping left is the polite gesture to reject potential suitors without...
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BoundarySolutions
May 13, 20222 min read
đ§đźIf You Want Whatâs Best For The Kids, Help Them Have A Relationship With Their Dadđ§đź
However much a mother may wish it weren't so, her ex is the childrenâs father and should never be airbrushed out of their lives..."...
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BoundarySolutions
May 13, 20222 min read
đŚŽThis Is My Umm Service DogđŚŽ
Why would anyone want a fake service dog? For some, it is as simple as wanting to have the companionship of their dog on trips to stores...
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BoundarySolutions
May 12, 20222 min read
âŞď¸Why Do People Believe in GodâŞď¸
Why do people believe in God? For most people the answer seems obvious: Its self-evident that God exists. From the point of the believer,...
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BoundarySolutions
May 11, 20222 min read
âAre You Truly Unhappy or Just Dislike Your Partner Right nowâ
If sometimes disliking your partner is okay, then when do you know that you've crossed the line to true unhappiness? In other words, when...
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BoundarySolutions
May 11, 20222 min read
đžNew Relationship Gamesđž
New relationships can be tricky. It is likely that your method of communication will be via text message. With texting, you donât have...
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BoundarySolutions
May 10, 20222 min read
đ¤ŹDealing with being Angryđ¤Ź
Anger is an emotion that we all experience, and it signifies that something has to be done. Anger makes you aware that there is a...
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BoundarySolutions
May 9, 20222 min read
đ´Sleeping with Different Sleep Schedulesđ´
If youâre one of the 70% of U.S. adults who share your sleeping space with a significant other, you know that bedtime isnât all cuddles...
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